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I'm Joy, wife, mom of 4 (and unorganized professional organizer ) and I love helping busy scattered moms feel great about their homes!
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Since Pinterest and Instagram took over, a pantry has quietly changed definition. It used to be a closed door nobody worried much about. Now an “organized” pantry is expected to look pretty too, and I’m not convinced that’s actually convenient for ADHD brains.
I needed to tackle my own pantry recently, and the clue that gave it away was a growing pile of chip bags accumulating on the floor in front of the exact spot where chips are supposed to go. I’d set up two wire baskets for chips at floor level, visually clear so nothing gets forgotten, but low enough that pulling them out to grab a bag became just annoying enough that it stopped happening. Instead, newly bought bags got opened and tossed on the floor in front of the baskets, over and over. By the time I finally confronted it, there were roughly twenty-five partially used bags of chips scattered around, several stale enough to toss. What looked like a reasonable system on paper simply wasn’t working in practice, and that’s fine. You take an idea for a test drive, and sometimes it doesn’t pan out. Now I need an actual new solution.
Whatever’s piling up in front of a shelf, whatever you keep buying multiples of because you forgot you already had one, whatever’s going stale unused, all of that is useful information about how your household actually behaves, not evidence that you’re failing. Buying pretty baskets alone doesn’t change behavior if the underlying friction point isn’t addressed.
I recently reorganized a very type-A client’s pantry, originally set up beautifully around three years ago. Her very athletic family relied on grab-and-go items, protein bars, pre-packaged drink powders, granola snacks, nut packs, meant to be convenient. But once all those individually wrapped items were piled inside their original cardboard boxes, on top of each other, she’d lost track of what she had, ended up with multiples of the same thing, and some open boxes got shoved to the back while new ones took their place up front. Once I pulled everything out of the cardboard boxes so each item was immediately visible and grabbable, it created real breathing room and let her actually glance at what was running low.
Generally, I don’t push decanting; I even did a whole “break this rule” episode on skipping it. But there are two real exceptions where decanting genuinely helps. First, pre-packaged grab-and-go items, since you’re not opening food into a new container, you’re just freeing individually wrapped pieces from an outer box so they’re instantly accessible. Second, baking staples like flour and sugar, since most of the time you’re using them, you’re scooping with a measuring cup anyway, and wrestling an open bag closed again just to reopen it later adds real friction and mess.
Every extra step you add creates a point where things can fall apart. If you’re rushing home from the grocery store, will you skip decanting entirely? If you’re racing out the door, do you need to grab and go with zero extra steps? Interestingly, this cuts both ways. If evening snacking is something you’re trying to curb, making a convenience food slightly less accessible, an opaque basket instead of a see-through one, might be exactly the friction you want, enough that boredom snacking doesn’t default to it, while genuine hunger will still push you to make the effort.
Walk over to your pantry and observe it like an anthropologist studying your own household. What’s landing on the floor or piling up in front of a shelf? What have you bought multiples of because you kept forgetting you already had one? What’s going unused? Let those observations point you toward the one specific fix your pantry actually needs, rather than a total overhaul based on how someone else’s pantry looks.
Until next time, continue to choose joy.
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