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I'm Joy, wife, mom of 4 (and unorganized professional organizer ) and I love helping busy scattered moms feel great about their homes!
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Every home has some version of Hogwarts’ Room of Requirement, that space piled with lost, forgotten, and cast-aside items, shoved out of sight and mostly ignored. Whether it’s a basement storage room, a garage corner, or a closet nobody opens on purpose, that kind of space turns out to have some genuinely useful lessons hiding inside it.
A home that’s flawlessly organized in every single corner isn’t necessarily the healthier standard to aim for. Having one catch-all space that stays a little chaotic is completely normal, and often just means other things, relationships, time, energy, are rightly being prioritized elsewhere.
Even with unlimited magical ability, that fictional room never gets organized into neat labeled shelves, because it was simply never a priority. That’s worth remembering next time a scroll through perfectly curated organizing photos online starts to feel like the expected standard. Most homes, even ones with far more resources or help than a wand could offer, have a version of this same room.
The real goal isn’t eliminating every messy space entirely, it’s making sure the rooms that matter most, where the family actually lives, gathers, and welcomes guests, stay reasonably in order. One designated space that’s allowed to stay imperfect is a completely reasonable trade-off, as long as it doesn’t creep into the spaces that matter more.
While working through a higher-priority space, it’s common to pick up something sentimental or genuinely uncertain, not clearly trash, but not clearly worth keeping visible either. Having a designated spot to stash those undecided items lets you keep moving through the space you’re actually trying to finish, rather than grinding to a halt over one difficult decision.
Once every other priority in the house has been addressed and it’s finally time to face the catch-all room, it’s fine to call in backup, a friend, a family member, or a professional organizer. These spaces tend to be genuinely overwhelming precisely because they’ve been avoided for so long, and outside help at that point is time and money well spent.
Identify your own version of the Room of Requirement, and give yourself permission to leave it as-is for now while you focus on the spaces your family actually lives in. When you’re finally ready to tackle it, don’t go it alone.
Until next time, continue to choose joy.
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